Are You Having “Assumptions” ??? Surely Most of them are Negative…

Here are “5 reasons” why you should avoid them so as to have a ‘speedbreaker’less personal and professional life…

” Do not make assumptions unless you know the whole story. If in doubt,ask the person directly. “

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1) Most of the assumptions are negative which always pose hindrance in our success. Because we always think about a particular situation, about a particular person, about a particular place, about a particular culture with our limited knowledge and never questions or challenges our thinking with new thoughts or situations.. you know why… because we have a “fear” in our heart from the phenomenon which is called “CHANGE”.

2) Going to the new city for studying or travelling, relative and acquintences would always tell things like in that city peoples are not good,environment is not better,food will have bad quality,all streets have fish markets (important point in conversations of vegeterians). I know all these because this has been told many times to me when i have decided to come to a completely new city, culturally very different from my home city. But what I have found that 99% of the content what I have heard is totally wrong and my new inhabited city is awesome in so many aspects.

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3) One of the assumption is that there is no fun while travelling alone. But what I have observed from my experience that there is totally new fun, new experience,  new energy while you travel alone. You roam around in the new city with different attitude. You tends to become more observent to the beauty of new city, to the behaviour of people, their style of living and talking, to the landscape and the architecture. When I had visited the Gangtok (a beautiful tourists place in the Eastern Himalayas, is a capital of Indian State of Sikkim), I had travelled more like my home town, taken the local roads not known where they leads, observe everything and believe me it was a total memorable experience and I had come out with a little bit better character.

4) Don’t talk to strangers,you don’t know how they are : Well this is also prevalent among the masses, that’s why you may have observed while travelling in trains or on a flight that how much people are reserved even if they are travelling with you for the whole day and never say a word. But in my case I usually try to start the conversation during my travelling amd by god’s grace till now I have made some good friends while travelling,one is doctor and another one is artists from South Africa.

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5) Don’t make assumtions about your colleague : If in workplace your colleague takes a stand on something that goes against your point of view than it doesn’t mean that he is selfish or is against you,it simply means he is having different thoughts on that perticular issue. Do not make assumptions about the character of person on the basis of small things.. life is big so have a wide perspective on different things, always think on a long term.

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These are some of the main assumptions which i have faced in my day to day life.

What are your thoughts on “Assumptions”… please let me know with your comments below and also share your assumptions which you had in past but shattered now.

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35 thoughts on “Are You Having “Assumptions” ??? Surely Most of them are Negative…

  1. I assumed many times but it proved wrong…..but when I thought we’ll look after what will happens…. Why to worry now…..

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  2. Rightly said bhaiya…u have a wide view of perspective..and a man with wide perspection can only observe such things…and all your examples justifies them too…thankyou for such a nice blog…i will too avoid negative assumptions and will share it too..😊

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    1. Hey thanx Shivam for such a nice and motivational comment. I am all pumped up. Ya you can try to avoid assumptions as it will benefit you from all aspects. And thank you so much for sharing as it will benefit others also (I assume so 😜).

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  3. Hey Brother..
    M very much impressed n learned from ur blog…. its really bitter truth….. I remember u used to teach me abt Assumption( whatever it is positive or negative)…. v shud not make prior assumption for anything b’coz it leads boundation for us nd stop our growth for nything… 🙂 (y)

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    1. Rightly said sis.. I too have learned so many things about assumptions after coming to kolkata.
      I feel good that you like my blog and appreciate me. Thank You.

      Please share it also. 😊

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  4. Good one… I must say assumptions are the biggest hurdles of our life… And as you are moving forward in ur doctors bloggingi like to say” it may be near when it seems far”, so we should stick to a fight to get biggest hit….

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  5. Assumptions lets us to half the knowledge, misunderstandings, and no further try of new things which grow our brain

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    1. Rightly said. And they can be easily avoidable by just modifying our thinking little bit.
      Thank You for commenting. Share it with others so that they can also think about their assumptions.

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    1. Thank you Niharika. Ya.. they does have, that is why it is important to avoid them and have a broader perspective of life. We should see the bigger scenario of everything, the day when we develop the habit of this then our life will become something different.
      Thank you for commenting, if you like this than “share” it with others also. 😊

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  6. Yes truely said.. Mst of dem r negatve.. But 1 assumptn which i hv heard n im experiencing is abt indore.. Assumptn of nt lkng d place at all.. N its been a yr here still im nt likng it 😌

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  7. Very rightly said bro…the main assumption u correctly talked abt vs abt ur collegues…it happens with everyone…everybody thinks tht he or she vl do this..but whn we see d person doing just the opposite thing or doing things below ur expectations…we get hurt n we started judging tht person…sumtyms we dnt understand tht he or she myt hve done this for our betterment only…but during tht tym our mind thinks tht we r ryt n other person is wrng….

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    1. Very rightly said Anurag. The assumptions about collegues is one the most prominant and also most distressing to us. And as you said these assumptions can be detrimental to our relationship with them.
      Thank you bro for your comment, if you like this than please share it with others. 😊

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  8. The very need of time is to assume that making assumptions is not the right step for making any decision.
    Nice work bhai

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      1. Nice one Ansh.!!
        Really impressive..
        Looking forward for more blogs by u.
        I had learnt many things from u..
        Keep it up .. 👍

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        1. Thank You Garima for the comment and for the appreciation. It is my good luck that I have something which benefits my dear ones.
          Ya sure I will write as much as I can, you can “follow” my blog so that next time whenever i will write, there will be notification for you through your email. Thank You😊

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  9. I cannot help but people-watch and make assumptions about them. But I’ve learned as I’ve gotten older, to give people a chance to show who they really are over time. Now, sometimes this can result in changing my original assumptions so that people I think I might enjoy being with end up the people I can’t get away from fast enough. Such is life.

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        1. Ya.. I have been living with that habit and making assumptions about people’s nature just by observing them for some time in college days. But I was very wrong, and had lost a great deal of relations. But as I am living in a culturally very different city in India, I am learning to manage relations with different types of people.

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  10. Helpful article. I’m glad you’ve found that your family/friends judgements weren’t true.I also think its kinda cool to travel alone. I move from Connecticut,USA to NYC ,USA by myself and i have enjoyed it.

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